se7en ways to propose .....By hilonee furia.....yahoo

You’ve met the girl of your dreams, you are truly, madly, deeply in love with her and you cannot wait to pop the question.
But what is stopping you is the fact that you have no idea HOW to propose to her.
If the above is the situation you find yourself in, then this article is written just for you. After much deliberation I have come up with a list of the 7 Most Amazing Ways in which you can Propose to your girl. I hope you find one that you can recreate and get your girl to say yes!

1. Design a web page

This one is an out-of-the-box method quite in sync with today’s technology driven world. Get a web designer to design a web page for you which consists of your photos together, maybe a poem you’ve dedicated to her, the imagery of a place you want to or have gone together to and the works. Create an online memoir which will remind her of all the wonderful things you’ll have done together and why you are THE ONE for her. Send her the link to the page once it’s ready and await her positive reply

2. A one-day picnic

Go away for a one day picnic. Start with a romantic early morning drive to eventually go to a fun / adventurous theme park or a romantic resort – whichever setting she’d prefer. Spend quality time with her away from the mad rush of the city and be extra kind, loving and generous to her. Today is the day you got to let the love flow freely and let her know just how much you love her. On the drive back halt the car at a random location and completely out of nowhere flash the ring. She will be surprised to say the least and will be too delighted to say anything but a yes!

3. Gather family / friends for dinner

One way to seal the deal is to do it in the presence of loved ones. Show your ‘homely good boy’ side by organising and hosting a dinner for family and friends. You don’t have to necessarily tell them the reason behind this get together. When you are sure that no one is in on your plan, and you find everyone immersed in conversation & having a gala time, grab their attention and pop the question. Surprise them, surprise her and what will follow is a flurry of emotions, hugs, tears and congratulations!

4. A ‘proposal’ hunt

Get creative and adventurous by planning a ‘proposal’ hunt. Plan your clues in advance and let one clue led to another till the last one finally leads to you standing there with a ring in one hand and a rose in the other. Once the preparations are in order, drop the first clue on her like a bomb and keep at it till she reaches her destination - YOU! Don’t make the hunt too long or complicated, as she might lose interest. Keep it simple and patiently wait for her to accept the ring and fall in your arms.

5. Do a Chandler!

All F.R.I.E.N.D.S. aficionados will know how Chandler wanted to propose to Monica. Lead her to believe that you don’t want to get married anytime soon, that in fact you are beginning to question the institution itself and that you probably would never want to get married. Lead her astray so that she is saddened by your confessions but not completely disheartened. Play along for a day or two, and then the following night decorate her room with candles, balloons and keep champagne at ready. Once she walks in, get down on one knee and propose. She will be surprised, shocked, teary eyed and very very happy all at once.

6. Dinner / Romance / Wine

Though done time and again, this one never goes out of fashion. Plan a romantic evening with her. Book a table at an expensive restaurant, order the best wine, and arrange for live romantic music to be played. Ask her for a dance before the main course arrives and pop the question. The ambiance thus created should be such that she simply cannot refuse.

7. Heartfelt words

If you have decent writing skills then write poems for her. Send her one poem and a bouquet of flowers each day of the week and with each passing day let the romance build. On the 7th day, meet her in person and hand her a bouquet. Then talk freely & express your true emotions for her. Tell her how happy she would make you by agreeing to your proposal and how ‘she completes you’. Use words as your weapon of choice and slay her with your wit, charm and honesty. She simply won’t be able to refuse.
Hope these suggestions have eased your dilemma. Use one of these ideas and ask your girl out and she will surely yes!

How to Get a Girl to Like You - 4 Easy Ways to Make it Happen

Maybe you've had your eye on her for some time, or perhaps you just met her a second ago. Whatever the case, every guy wants to know the secret to attracting women, and the good news is that it's entirely possible. Armed with an understanding of the female psyche, any guy can go from a dating dud to a stud.

Continue reading to learn how.

Draw Attraction

There are two types of men in this world...those who get women, and those who don't. If you think the difference between these two categories is looks, money, or a nice set of wheels, think again. In reality, a man's ability to attract the opposite sex boils down to one thing...confidence.

Men who are appealing to women draw attraction. Theirs is an innate sense of confidence that shows through their body language, thereby making them irresistible to females. By drawing attraction, a man makes a woman gain his approval, not the other way around. He does not go to great lengths in order to please her, and if he's not feeling the interaction, he'll move on to someone else.

Men who desperately pursue women appear as though they're not comfortable in their natural state, and in the end, they get rejected. So stop agreeing with everything she says, and lay off the flattery. Wait until you feel she's earned it before you buy her a drink. You'll be amazed at the results.

The Couples Technique

By their very nature, women are more in touch with their feelings than men, and if you want to progress sexually with a girl, you have to establish a feeling of comfort within her. She must feel completely at ease in your presence in order to let down her guard. One surefire way of accomplishing this is to utilize my Couples Technique.

If you've ever watched a couple in public, you probably noticed a body language of extreme coziness (or even grossness). However you slice it, they've progressed in their relationship from awkwardness into complete comfort, so they're not afraid to touch one another. You can utilize this behavior for your own seduction efforts.

The next time you find yourself face-to-face with a girl you're attracted to, pull the Couples Technique on her by delicately removing an eyelash from her cheek. Even if there's nothing on her face, you can pretend there is. Not only will have the perfect excuse to touch her, but you'll create an instant connection within her subconscious.

Tease Her

If you've ever been to a strip club, you know how effective teasing can be. One could even say that exotic dancers invented the art of teasing. Their methods of advancing and withdrawing on patrons not only turns men on...it keeps them on.

What if I told you it's possible to actually learn something from those dancers? Believe it or not, teasing isn't a technique reserved solely for women. Teasing is an essential tool for building sexual tension with women, as it enables you to show a genuine interest without appearing overly eager.

Joke with a girl about her quirks or behaviors, or playfully banter with her about the clothes she's wearing. If she gives a silly response to one of your questions, call her out on it. The trick to successfully teasing women is to keep everything playful, and know that she secretly loves it.

Know How to Read Her

When a woman is turned on, most men are clueless. Believe it or not, men aren't the only ones afraid of rejection. With that said, women give off several signs of interest that (if gone unnoticed) can ruin any guy's chances of success.

For starters, watch her eyes. If you notice a girl checking you out, only to look away upon establishing eye contact, she's probably into you. Does she often send a smile your way? If so, odds are she wants you to notice.

She might also be attracted to you if:

• She makes an effort to talk to you.
• She fiddles with her hair.
• She strokes her arm, neck, or face in your presence.
• She laughs at your jokes (even the stupid ones).
• She speaks softer when talking to you.
• She asks you point-blank, "What are your plans this weekend?"

If you get any combination of these signs, don't wait to make your move.

The secret to attracting women begins with confidence. From there, the various techniques discussed in this article will aid your seduction efforts. By establishing comfort, knowing how to tease, and being able to read her body language, you'll be a master at making any woman interested in you.

What Does Flirting Mean and How Do You Flirt?

What is the meaning of flirting? This question may seem simple enough to answer. After all, we've all done it (or tried to, at least.)

Complimenting women, dressing to impress, and spouting off cheesy pick-up lines are just some of the tactics devised to attract a mate, but how much do we really know about the art of flirting?

In short, flirting is nothing more than a mating ritual, and it is not exclusive to humans alone.

Consider the animal kingdom. Have you ever wondered about the songs birds sing? Is it just a mere coincidence that peacocks have such stylish feathers? What's the science behind apes beating their chests the way they do?

The answer is simple... it's all a part of their mating ritual.

While flirting techniques are unique to each species, the goal behind them is not. For humans, flirting involves the verbal and nonverbal cues we use to attract a potential mate. We use this form of communication to show interest and to generate the sexual tension that's necessary for creating attraction.

As men, we take specific actions to impress the female of our choice: humor; intelligence; material wealth; social status; confidence. Like the male ape beating his chest, these are just some of the signals we emit to prove our desire and worthiness to the opposite sex.

This is the essence of flirting! What's more is that it is mostly done on an unconscious level. Think back to the animal examples mentioned earlier. Do you think any of these mating rituals are preplanned?

They are not. In actuality, they are all nature's answer to continuing the life cycle, and every creature on the planet is bred specifically for this purpose, including humans.

Like the animal kingdom, humans don't think about flirting...they just do it. In fact, the only time we're actually aware of our flirtatious nature is when it backfires on us. Every guy has been in a situation where a girl appears to be flirting with him, only to act annoyed when he returns the gesture.

She spouts off comments such as, "You're not my type," or "I like you as a friend," and he finds himself confused at the entire interaction. In fact, it's not uncommon for a guy to misinterpret a girl's friendly signals for a sexual attraction.

While it's important to know how to flirt, it's equally vital that you know how to read her signals. The truth is a woman will send specific body language cues that show she's interested when you're flirting with her. Knowing how to read these signs (and act upon them) is the secret to getting her.

So even if you understand WHY people flirt, it's much more important to be able to flirt in a way that attracts the women you're meeting!

12 SMS Flirting Tips For Attracting Women

Wanna know the ONE tool I use all the time to flirt and create sexual tension?

It's the 'text messaging' function on my cell phone.

Now unless you've lived in a cave for the last couple of years, you're probably familiar with text messages. These are the short, "email like" messages you can send to people with your cell phone.

They're widely used because they're incredibly useful for asking a quick question or sending a brief message.

What's interesting is women LOVE text messaging! If you've ever watched a girl in a social setting, you'll notice how much many text messages she sends. In fact, I think this form of technology is rapidly replacing phone conversations.

So when you text message a girl the RIGHT way, you can quickly build enough attraction that you won't have to do much IN-PERSON game when you see her next.

BUT there's one major problem here...

Most guys complete screw-up what they write on their text messages. They text the way we men typically have conversations. When talking to one another, we like to think logically and make plans. This means their texts are usually straight to the point.

Women on the other hand, view text messaging as a way to get to know one another. They use it to describe their problems and stay in touch with people in their lives.

It's important to remember this rule when texting!

The best way to use text messaging is to build SEXUAL TENSION. Before each text, I think carefully about how this message will advance the flirting and sexual tension I've created with this particular girl.

Whether I'm teasing her, sending "comfort" messages or making plans, my texts are specifically designed to create a STRONG emotion in the girl who receives them!

And from the results I've seen in my dating life, I can honestly say there is a lot benefits you can gain behind sending a well-written text message. With that being said, I'm actually really surprised at the LACK of information about sending text messages to women.

While I KNOW many guys use them, not much has been written on the subject! So for the last 5 months, I've had to create my own system for text messaging.

So let's cover the basics of text messaging. Over the last five months, I've received a number of emails from guys who are interested in improving their "text game". Primarily I get TWO main questions:

1) What's the purpose behind text messaging?
2) Can you give ACTUAL examples of messages you've sent?

With these two questions in mind, I want to dive in and further discuss this topic:

#1- What is the purpose for text messaging?

Bottom line- Text messaging is all about creating and maintaining sexual tension!

When you first get a number, it's easy to have attraction. But this is quickly lost in the time between getting her digits and making that first phone call. With texting, you can bridge the 'time-gap' and keep the attraction alive.

While I recommend that texting should NEVER replace a phone call, sending a few can be an excellent way to get a woman to THINK ABOUT YOU throughout her day.

And when you go to call her, she'll immediately recognize the good feelings and emotions that you've already given her. This makes it easy to get her on the phone and set up a 2nd meeting (ie: First Date)

I personally use my text messages to STAND OUT from the other guys who might be calling this girl.

So I focus on TWO things when I text a girl:

1) Teasing her in a familiar manner to create the sense that I already "know" her
2) Using call back humor to an event/conversation that happened when I met her

Generally I'll start a texting conversation by referencing a specific thing that happened in our first conversation. (This is how to use the call-back humor that I just mentioned)

For instance, a few weeks back I met an attractive girl from Eastern Europe. As soon as she opened her mouth, I realized that she sounded EXACTLY like the guy from the Borat movie.

And once I confirmed that she saw the movie and "got the joke", I teased her mercilessly about sounding like Borat. Naturally the first message started with a reference to Borat.

This leads to the next question that I want to cover (This is where I provide the 12 proven messages that I promised at the start of this article)

#2- Can you give ACTUAL examples of messages you've sent?

As I mentioned before, I typically use 'call-back humor' with my texts. This makes it hard to give "cookie-cutter" examples. However, there are times when I didn't get an opportunity to use call-back humor.

So even if I really didn't get a chance to know a girl better, I'll still use a few messages that have gotten great results in the past.

Anyway, here are 12 messages I've personally used:

==> After meeting a girl- (Use 2-3 hours after the first meeting to establish initial contact)

1) "I know you're thinking about me. So I thought I would say hi!"

2) "My ears are tingling...stop talking about me!"

3) "Wow...that's weird. I think I just saw your twin. Are you stalking me?"

==> Lifestyle updates- (Use to keep contact ever other day & demonstrate that you're a fun/interesting person )

4) "Dude...my cat just did the craziest thing..."

5) "I just saw an army of Oompa Loompas. I think short people are breeding too fast

6) "85 degrees out. Time to grab a towel and head to the beach. Too bad you have to work!!!"

==> Building Sexual Tension- (Use after you've spoken on the phone and set up a 2nd meeting)

7) "Miss me yet?"

8) "Tomorrow should be awesome. Just try not to embarrass me in front of my friends"

9) "Looking forward to seeing you. You're like the bratty little sister I've always wanted.

==> After the 2nd meeting- (Use to reinforce the good time she had)

10) "Had an AWESOME time. Hugs and kisses!"

11) "Fun times! I guess it's safe to introduce you to
my friends!"

12) "Had a great time! Even if you're a little dorky..."

Sexual tension can be quickly gained and quickly LOST.

That's why it's important to keep up the attraction at ALL points in the relationships you have with women. In other words, NEVER allow the lines of communication to go slack.

That's why I personally recommend that you use the text tips that I provided in this article and stay in contact with ALL the women you're dating (or hope to date).

How to Make Women Laugh and Feel Attracted towards you

Today I want to quickly cover a SIMPLE, but very effective technique that guys use to create attraction with the women you meet:

HUMOR

Whenever they do one of those polls asking what women want in a man, humor ALWAYS comes up in the top 3.

And if you looked carefully at any 'attract and seduce' course, you'll find that most of the information covers laughter and how it builds attraction.

Whether it's called cocky-funny, teasing, negging or sarcasm, HUMOR is critical to your success with women.

But many guys get it completely wrong when they try to be funny around women.

In order to get them laughing and attracted at the same time, you have to understand the principles.  That's why it's important to follow these 4 RULES of humor:

=====> RULE #1: Don't be a Clown

Being funny NEVER means acting like a clown.

Acting this way will make you seem like you're doing a "Try Hard".  This is when a guy is obviously trying to make a woman laugh.

This will lowers your social status and makes you seem like you're desperately seeking her approval.  Furthermore, when you do slap-stickey humor, women will be laughing…

But it'll be AT you, not WITH you.

Sure, comedians can get women laughing, but they almost never get laid!

=====> RULE #2: Tease Her

5th Graders can be pretty smart sometimes. At this age, if a boy likes a girl, he'll pull her hair and call her names.

Now I don't recommend pulling her hair (for now), but TEASING women is probably the best way to use humor. This doesn't mean being a jerk. Instead it's about treating her in a way that shows you're NOT afraid to be yourself and tease her.

You can tease her by:

• Giving her a nickname
• Mocking her voice
• Playfully messing with the things she's saying

Teasing a woman is a great way to assume familiarity.  If you just met her, and you're ALREADY teasing her, this can help you quickly break down that uncomfortable period where you're getting to know one another.

=====> RULE #3: Use Your Body Language

Look at the great comedians and you'll see a common pattern...They all know how to use their entire body to tell a joke. They'll make facial expressions, use props, gesture with their hands and use EVERYTHING they've got to make people laugh.

Again, you don't want to be a clown around women.  But remember your BODY LANGUAGE can add congruence to the things you're saying. So as you're teasing her, you want to establish physical contact in a way that's showing that you're a guy who is not afraid to play around with her.

This can include:

• Playfully swatting her
• Pushing her away, then pulling her back into a hug
• Doing games like 'thumb war', and 'hand slapping'

The point here is to use your humor to break the touch barrier while making her laugh at the same time!

=====> RULE #4: Do Other Things

Humor should be a spice that flavors a conversation. It shouldn't be the main course.

When you're ONLY teasing and making women laugh, you're NOT showing the other parts of your personality. That's why it's important to do other things that'll help you build and maintain attraction.

So while you're making her laugh, you also want to:

• Establish physical contact
• Build deep rapport
• Tell stories
• Ask her questions

Doing all of these things will help you seem more well-rounded and interesting!

When it comes to creating attraction, humor can be your MOST effective tool when you're talking to a woman.  So make sure you're getting it right!  By following these 4 rules, you’ll create that fun, flirty vibe that’s always helps you get the girl.

How to Understand What Women are Thinking

Frankly, women can be REALLY puzzling.

Case in point, have you EVER thought any of the following:

• “Why won't she return my phone calls?”

• “Why did she agree to a date, but cancel at the last minute?”

• “Why does she flirt, but get annoyed when I make a move?”

• “Why does she complain about the guys she dates, but doesn't want a nice guy”

The actions of women can be extremely frustrating!  It seems like they enjoy saying one thing then turning around doing the EXACT opposite.

And this is even more annoying when we think we're starting to finally understand them.

The other day my buddy Mike was complaining about a girl he recently met.  From what he told me, she showed all the obvious signs of interest:

• SHE approached him

• SHE flirted and carried the conversation

• SHE insisted that they meet for a date

So what happened?

At the last minute she called up and canceled the date.  After that, she wouldn't return Mike's phone call OR text messages.

Mike told me this story in the hopes that I had some advice on the matter.

And all I could do was shrug my shoulders and say...

“Women...who knows what goes on in their heads!”

I felt bad that I couldn't really give any advice to Mike.  That's because I really felt he handled pretty well.  Since she was showing obvious signs of interest, I was a little baffled as to why this girl flaked out.

Now I'll be the first to say that you never really  know when a woman is going to something flaky.  You could be having the best time with a woman!  Then she'll turn around and do something completely BIZARRE!

So I ask the question- “What goes through the minds of women  when they meet a guy?”

Well from what I've experienced, the MAJOR difference between the sexes really boils down to one thing:

How we view each situation

Typically a guy will use LOGIC in most areas.  (ie: A girl is flirting with me.  She must be interested!)

On the other hand, women use EMOTIONS to decipher a situation.  (ie: He's interested, but does he really like me.  Let's do a test to find out)

Yes, women are testing you.

And when I think about Mike's situation in hindsight, I realized that he didn't recognize a test at some point in their conversation.

My opinion is this girl was interested when she met him.  But she tested Mike to see if he was the type of guy who challenges women...

AND he failed!

The truth is almost every woman you meet will probably do some form of a mind game to judge your reaction.  They simply can’t help it.

They do this because of a specific emotional reaction they're trying to create in themselves or in YOU.

For instance if a woman is flirting without wanting to “hook up”, she's probably wants to feel sexy by having guys hit on her.

Or if a woman doesn't return your call, you didn't build up a serious emotional connection.

Or even better:

When a girl cancels your date, she's trying to create a situation where she's in the power position.  In other words, this girl wants to see how much she can dominate your actions and turn you into the pursuer.

How can you stop this from happening?

Honestly, that's a hard one to answer.  Some girls simply don't know what they want. Others only date guys who pass their tests.  And a few simply like the feeling of having power over guys.

To prevent this from happening to YOU, it's important to do the following:

1) Understand what motivates the different women you meet

2) Identify the moments when they're testing you

3) IMMEDIATELY challenge a girl when she starts acting like a flake.

You really can't control the actions of women.  But you can make them understand that you're the type of guy who doesn't deal with any bulls**t in your dating life.

You'll find that directly challenging a woman is one of the best ways to avoid weird behavior AND make them do what you want!

5 Simple Tips on Flirting with Girls

“God must be sad, because heaven’s missing an angel.”

This cheesy pick-up line is probably the saddest example of how some men flirt with girls. Unfortunately, lame attempts at approaching the opposite sex don’t end there. When it comes to effective seduction, most men don’t have a clue.

A lot of guys only scratch the surface when attempting to flirt. In their minds, if they can just strike up a conversation with a girl, they’re in. Unfortunately, true seduction is much more complex, requiring the demonstration of sexuality and physical attraction. When you put these all together, you have to show off an attractive personality in order to catch a woman’s interest.

In other words, you have to establish a rapport.

Rapport is just a fancy word for flirting, but with one major difference…it’s effective. When two people have established a rapport together, they have a genuine interest in each other. In short, they’ve clicked.

If you’re unsure of how to make flirting through rapport work for you, continue reading. The following are 5 tips on flirting with girls . Incorporate these into your seduction efforts, and you’ll be leaps ahead of the male competition.

Tip #1 – Understand flirting.

Flirting is more than just complimenting a girl. If you want her to return the gesture, you have to create sexual tension. In short, when a woman feels sexual tension towards you, she’s attracted, but she’s unsure of how you feel. This only heightens her interest in you.

Flirt with her the very second you meet her, thereby setting the wheels in motion. From there, joke around and lightly tease her. By play fighting with her, you’ll create an indirect feeling of rapport within her psyche, and she’ll crave you even more.

Tip #2 – Be cocky, but use humor.

The mixture of cockiness with humor is a great technique. The idea behind this approach is to elevate your status within her eyes, thereby making her work harder to gain your approval.

For example, if she says something you don’t agree with, contradict her statement (cockiness), but do so in a teasing manner (humor). The combination of these two elements is a recipe for sexual tension. As with anything, however, use this technique in moderation, and see to it that your cockiness doesn’t bleed over into arrogance.

Tip #3 – Create a sexually-tense conversation.

Your objective with flirting is to showcase yourself in a sexual light. You want her to view you as a possible lover, not a friend, and to do so, you must incorporate sex into your conversation.

Before you get all hot and bothered, understand that I don’t mean you should act like a pig. Rather, you should introduce the topic of sex in an indirect manner. Telling a few of your friends’ funny sex stories is a good way to accomplish this.

A buddy of mine has a trick that’s worked well for him. In essence, he jokes about marrying the girl, and he’ll banter with her about what their house would be like. Once she says something he can tease her about, he’ll tell her that “it’s over” or he wants a divorce.

The combination of romance and teasing drives women nuts!

Tip #4 – Touch her.

Now that you know some elements for a good conversation, it’s time to up the ante. In other words, it’s time to touch her.

If you can establish physical contact with a girl, you’re well on your way to the bedroom. To accomplish this, identify key points during an interaction when it would be appropriate to make contact. If you’re walking through a crowd, grab her hand, and touch the small of her back as you hold the door open for her. When talking to her, touch her arm to stress a point.

These moves are subtle, but believe me…she’ll notice.

Tip #5 – Talk adventurously.

Women crave excitement. With that said, the more adventure you’ve got going on in your life, the more attracted she’ll be to you.

Before I get into how you can appear more exciting, I’d like to stress that you should never brag in front of a girl. Arrogance does more harm than good. Instead, inject adventurous stories into your conversation. Wild road trips, crazy travels, or projects you’ve got going on are great for enhancing your image.

Once you’ve grabbed her attention, try talking about all the fun stuff she could do with you. Once again, don’t brag. Instead, mention a few of the things you enjoy that she might also be interested in. This will further convince her that she’s attracted to you.

Final Thoughts

If you want to learn tips on flirting with girls, you’ll have to abandon the cheesy pick-up lines, and learn how to really talk to women. By establishing a high status and sexual nature from the start, you’ll be well on your way to creating the rapport necessary for successful flirting. Incorporate these 5 tips into your efforts, and any woman will be putty in your hands.